Tuesday, September 8, 2009

DO COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.....

The entire nation mourned the tragic death of a very able politician and AP Chief Minister YSR Reddy and four others accompanying him in an unfortunate Chopper crash in deep forests near Hyderabad on 2nd September, 2009. May his soul and of the four others, rest in peace. Lately, whenever I hear or read about air crashes, my entire body shudders at the mere thought of it. I have become a little paranoid about flying. This is so because last year when me and my family were travelling from Kuala Lumpur to Langkawi in Malaysia, we were part of one such monstrous flight made all the more haunting and unceremonius by a f***ed up fellow passenger, that we could have easily crashed into yore. But for God's blessings, we are very lucky to be still alive and kicking.

That one hour flight was so jittery and full of turbulence that our heart's were sinking every now and then. And to make matters worse was a guy from Bangladesh who (sitting alongwith his two male friends right behind us) was uttering all crap and nonsense about the flight, as if in jest. Whenever the plane went up and down due to turbulence, he kept on blabbering that he had a nightmare only last night about this particular flight definitely crashing and he was so sure because his nightmares always turned out to be true. He literally scared the s**t out of me and other fellow passengers who were listening to his scary outbursts. Obviously, my two little girls were also scared to death. It all reminded me of the movie, "Final Destination". I was constantly praying deep inside my heart that nothing as averse as mouthed by him happens. I don't know why anybody didn't muster up the guts to shut him up there and then. Fortunately, by the grace of God we somehow landed safely in Langkawi in one piece. Thereafter, his two friends immediately apologised to me and my wife for the harm their idiotic friend's brainless comments about the flight might have caused us. It was visible that they were quite embarrased because of their friend and also probably due to the timid look on our faces during the whole duration of the flight.

After this particular experience, I always make it a point to thank God and Count my blessings. It has taught me that we should get rid of all kinds of negativity around us, believe in the Almighty, remain grateful and contended with all the good things in life he has provided us with; rather than crib for what we don't have and finally take a cue from only the positive things happening around us. I hope the Ambani brothers who are among the richest Indians soon stop their now infamous fight over money and rather count their blessings. The fact that you are leading a happy and healthy life in itself is a boon. 'So Let us just impart & imbibe only positive energy'. And please !! please !! do count your blessings before you go to bed every night as we often forget to do that in our mundane existence and remember that each day is a gift from God :)

4 comments:

Kapil Malhotra said...

I must admit that this topic of yours is worth a deep introspection about the life that we lead and in turn the blessings that we have to live it the way that we do.

Few months ago, I was sitting with a long lost friend who is doing very well in his career, financially sound, great family, healthy & wise parents and was still cribbing about this and that...the conversation suddenly took a u-turn when we saw a handsome guy in crutches entering the bar and sharing his state of being paralysed waist down to a friend due of a car accident that happened because of some drunk truck driver.
But amazingly, he was still living his life with a smile, having a drink and telling his friend that he still thanks god for what he has...his life.

I am a true believer that there is no harm to aspire for more....but also to remember every single day in the morning & at night that 'to live a normal life is a blessing and if you have anything more than that, then don't forget to count your blessings!!'

God Bless Us All!
Kapil Malhotra

Dheeraj Mehra said...

good one.. I remember something like this happened to me from Delhi to Bangalore flight with too much to turbulence on the way.It could be really scary ;-)

Vivek Ahuja said...

Hey Sumit,

I count on my blessings each day. One of them is to have a friend like you!

Cheers!
Vivek Ahuja
Managing Director
Confiar Consultants India Private Limited

Romila Punn said...

U r so right...we need to thank God for what he has blessed us with rather than cribbing about what we dont have..we humans are so badly entangled in this materialistic web of worldly vices, that we just dont realise....I remember something similar happening to us when we were leaving from Washington to London last month....we were caught in very turbulent weather conditions...lightning and rain....for 10 mins. the plane was going up and down...it was soooooo scary.